Topic for 27th September 2015: Staying in… and coming out.
8pm BST, Sunday, using #NBFolks Twitter hashtag. 😀
You’ve come out once at least, nonbinary friends – to yourself. Even if you’re not 100% certain what label (or labels), if any at all, is or are quite right for you, you’ve figured out one important thing and, hopefully, internalised it. You’re nonbinary in some way. Awesome!
Now the hard part… Telling everyone else.
Some of us are lucky to have really supportive friends, work colleagues, or family (jackpot if you hit all three). Some aren’t so lucky. And for some, it’s downright unsafe to be themself.
This week’s topic is coming out – or staying in: we’ll discuss safety, practicality, maybe even morality and if Lex gets lucky, a little bit of philosophy.
One thing to bear in mind, perhaps more so in this chat than our usual weekly get togethers, is that what you post on Twitter is public. If you’re in the unfortunate situation that being out may be unsafe, please, please think before you write. You can contact chat mod Lex via email or DM any time if you’d like to talk privately.
Here’s this week’s discussion topics. As always, they’re really just there to get you thinking – we’ll cover thus and much more on Sunday…
Q1a) If you’ve come out to at least one other person, how did it go?
Q1b) If you haven’t, do you have a plan for how to do it?
Q2a) If you’ve come out, what was the best experience you’ve had?
Q2b) Whether you have or not, have you thought about how to keep yourself safe and sane when you do? Share any advice!
Q3) Trigger warn if you feel it’s necessary: What was your worst coming-out experience?
Q4) Do you have any advice or suggestions on how we can help ourselves, eg by helping others understand nb genders, etc?